Character

Character is an important element of success and a critical attribute of leadership, but character alone cannot ensure success unless it is channeled in a positive direction. When good, decent people—persons of character—connect with a major purpose for their lives toward which they willingly and enthusiastically direct their energies, the results can be awe-inspiring. A major purpose and outstanding character are a formidable combination.

LESSON:

Character is the essence of who you are, not just what others perceive you to be. It's built over time through your actions, experiences, and the way you carry yourself—what the French call "Noblesse Oblige"—your self-portrait . It's not about the title you hold but the respect you earn through your words, actions, and the way you treat others .

Character is what it is, while reputation is what others think you are . It's about consistently doing the right and best thing, even when no one is watching . As a leader, your character plays a significant role in your ability to influence and earn genuine respect, which is what people say about you when you're not in the room .

Building character involves self-reflection and a willingness to expose yourself to your shortcomings to grow and evolve . It's about having the courage to withstand adversity and the resilience to bounce back . When you have character, people will trust, believe, and like you, which is essential for creating meaningful relationships and achieving success .

Remember, character is not something you demand; it's something you earn and build over a lifetime .